An open letter to Johnny Depp
"Tell the world, Johnny, tell them, Johnny Depp,
I, Johnny Depp, a man, I'm a victim too of domestic violence,
and see how many people believe or side with you." - Amber Heard
Well, sir... you did. And they did.
A lot of people believed you from the start. People called them Deppford Wives and misogynists.
A lot of people came to believe you over time. The media wrote them off as fans and trolls.
A lot of people came to believe you during the trial, hearing your story properly, and with all the facts finally available to us. Still the media wrote articles about 'the internet' siding with you. Like we're not all individual human beings with eyes and ears and the ability to think for ourselves. They tried to paint it as a war of words rather than of evidence, and the public as idiot sheep who'd huddle together without discernment.
What it came down to was what seven people on a Virginia jury thought.
They believed you.
They sided with you.
Unanimously.
Sorry, I'm British. I had to.
I can't begin to imagine what it has cost you - physically, emotionally, psychologically - to do this. To lay yourself bare before the world. To have all the lowest points of your life scrutinised, dissected... I imagine you feared the world would judge you harshly, but you did it anyway.
I am so proud of you.
Not to suggest that you were in any way selfish but I know you told your truth for yourself, for your kids, for the people who matter to you... but this has done so much GOOD. I have seen so many people, men and women, opening up about the DV / SA / false allegations they have suffered. Men especially are often talking about it for the first time because of you. Whether they were fans before is irrelevant, you're a fucking HERO now.
I really hope you've made inroads to changing the dialogue. Everything has been skewed in favour of women for far too long. A lot of people couldn't even imagine that being the wrong mindset before this. People have seen for themselves how messed up it is that she was believed on her word alone; her word that didn't ring true and a lot of times lacked even basic logic. I suspect there's a long wad to go before there's any real change toward true equality but that's not your battle.
You've fought so long and so hard for this I really hope this is the end of your nightmare.
I wish you healing, rebuilding... I hope your ability to love and trust will recover in time because you truly do deserve all the very best.
With the greatest of respect,
Heggie
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